看看外国论坛上，一群外国女人是如何看待中国男人跟中国女人的 - 德化论坛

翻译:瑞典女孩提问中国男人，美国少妇自述抢尽风头

Jonna Wibelius原籍瑞典，但她在过去的7年间曾先后移居英格兰、澳大利亚和芬兰，现在在中国定居（自从2006年起，有时是上海有时是苏州）。《她在中国》就是她记录并分享自己每天的生活心得的博客。

作者介绍：

Jonna Wibelius is originally Sweden but has spent the last 7 years living in England, Australia, Finland and now China (Shanghai/Suzhou since 2006). SHE in China is her blog about her observations on every day life.

Jonna Wibelius原籍瑞典，但她在过去的7年间曾先后移居英格兰、澳大利亚和芬兰，现在在中国定居（自从2006年起，有时是上海有时是苏州）。《她在中国》就是她记录并分享自己每天的生活心得的博客。

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Chinese man + Western girl...isn’t a combination you see much of in China. While Western men often date Chinese girls, it’s quite rare to see Western women with Chinese men. Why?

Well, I actually don’t know (who does?!) for sure, but I can only guess that it has something to do with one, or many, of the following reasons:

1. Western girls are taller/ have got ’bigger bones’ than most Chinese men, and often look/are bigger than Chi men. A girl doesn’t want to feel ’bigger’ than her men and a man doesn’t want to feel smaller than his woman...

2. Culture differences: many Western women are quite independent and used to sharing the house chores with their men. In many Chinese cities, the woman is expected (regardless if she has a full time job or not) to take care of the household, make dinner, and so on, with no additional help from the man (except for if she lives in Shanghai! The Shanghai men are apparently real house helpers). I find it hard to imagine a western woman settling for this when she’s been brought up in a completely different society. At least I know I wouldn’t.

3. Language barrier (needs no further explanation)

4. Lack of mutual attraction?!

When I first moved to China I caught myself thinking that ’I will never find an Asian man attractive... they are just not my style....’ But then, something happened?! I don’t know if my eyes needed time to adjust to the different scene or what... but suddenly I started to see attractive Asian men on the streets (China, Korean, Japanese...)